The 2018 Dating Etiquette Every Man Should Know About
Women hate pick up lines.
Notice that I am only using the term “WOMAN”.
The following info is not related to girls, wannabe princesses and pouting seekers of attention, mainly because I wouldn’t know what advice to offer in those cases and it’s not much a chase there, is it?
I am exclusively referring to women that know what they want, that are a presence and naturally have your attention.Ladies that know the difference between sexy and trashy, that you can bring to your parents, your office party & more.
The sexy, smart, independent ladies — yup, that is right, the scary, unapproachable type!
Men know more about how plane crashes that about the proper way to approach a woman in public.
Dating apps and social media have made it even more difficult to remember how to act and treat other like humans, in a honest and a genuine manner.
Classic scenario
Correct me if I am wrong, but usually, the scenario goes like this: you see her at the bar/table, with her girlfriends, having a good time.
If this is the case, be very careful with how you elaborate your moves.
If she is on a girls night out, you are probably interfering with her fun and mojo. Your mere presence will piss her & her girls off.
I know all the music videos paint a very different picture, but the truth is that girls just wanna have fun among themselves! You probably think they dressed up for you and other men, dancing like college girls to draw your attention and playing hard to get when not responding to your moves. Wrong!
Women dress up for themselves and/or other women, they dance with each other because it’s more fun than dancing with a guy will ever be.
There is no such thing as playing hard to get with a total stranger that in 8 out of 10 cases just wants to be in the dance sandwich.
What to do?
Pay attention to what is she doing, what she’s drinking, how she’s interacting.
Be funny & thoughtful
Offer a coat, a seat, some space at the bar so she could order, while making her laugh with a clever remark.
“Teach” her to order, if she is having trouble getting her order across, make it like a game, point out something that she was not aware of until now (since you were paying attention until now, you can anticipate her next moves and be there to help out).
- How to do it: Maybe she is struggling to make herself heard across the bar, and I am sure you can come up with a funny reason for that. Tell her that you know that this is a common situation, throw some numbers (78% of women feel like that are not listen to, lucky for you I am a good listener and I also know the bartender too), make her laugh
Compliment her outfit
I’ve had men coming up to me and saying they absolutely love my dress and couldn’t stop looking at me since I came in. Of course, I was wearing trousers at that time!
- How to do it: Pick a detail, tell her about that, choose a piece of jewelry, ask about her charm bracelet, just find a special thing about her outfit and go for it. Don’t go around saying she’s a fox, it won’t help much.
Be nice to her friends
Every woman hates a guy who is rude, or simply ignoring her friend while hitting on her. You will not stand a chance if you’re doing this.
- How to do it: Try to include her friend in the conversation, be polite, be funny and make sure you take this into consideration next time you just wanna cut into the conversation and turn your back on her friend.
Knight in shining armor
Yes, gentlemen, this is never out of style.
If you see the chance to help her out, in any way, letting her have your cab, lending a hand with her car, whatever it might be, don’t let it go by.
You might hear the “independent woman, don’t need your help” speech, so try to reassure her that you know that fact about her, it shows and you like it. You’re just there to lend a hand, even superheroes need a break for once in awhile, right?
